Take this quick assessment to discover how well your current lifestyle, relationships and support systems are positioned to help you thrive as a single person committed to purity.
The environment surrounding your purity may be helping you thrive...
or making purity much harder than it needs to be.
Your ability to maintain sexual discipline isn't only affected by how badly you want to abstain. It's also affected by the details of your life.
Do you have people you can call?
Are you regularly exposed to healthy relationships?
Do you have purpose outside of dating?
Are you healing?
Are you enjoying your life?
Do you have healthy outlets for stress, affection, connection and adventure?
Are you building the kind of life you actually want to protect?
That's what your Sexual Social Health Score helps measure.
Your score isn't a judgment of your faith, your worth or how "good" you are at abstinence. Think of it as a snapshot of your current purity ecosystem—the relationships, habits, resources, experiences and support structures surrounding your sexual decisions.
Because sometimes the problem isn't that you need more willpower.
You need a stronger foundation.
Find your score below to see what may already be working; and what may need an overhaul.
INSIDE THIS QUIZ, YOU'LL TAKE A CLOSER LOOK AT...
✓ Your Community
Do you have meaningful friendships, healthy relationships and people you can actually do life with?
✓ Your Emotional Health
Have you created space for healing, self-awareness and support—or are unresolved areas quietly following you into your purity journey?
✓ Your Social Life
Is your life actually stimulating and enjoyable outside of sex and romantic relationships?
✓ Your Dating + Relationship Development
Are you developing the confidence, exposure and relational skills you'll need for the kind of relationship you eventually want?
✓ Your Purpose + Lifestyle
Do you have meaningful goals, hobbies, service, interests and experiences giving your life dimension outside of romance?
✓ Your Support System
Do you have mentors, coaches, accountability and healthy examples helping you grow?
WAIT... WHAT EXACTLY IS "SEXUAL SOCIAL HEALTH?"
Good question.
At YPC, we believe sexual decisions don't happen in isolation.
They happen inside an environment.
Think about it.
When you're fulfilled, connected, growing, supported, enjoying your life and surrounded by healthy relationships, you're navigating sexuality from one kind of environment.
When you're isolated, bored, hurting, disconnected, affection-starved, unsupported or making your romantic life your only source of excitement...
you're navigating it from a completely different one.
That's why sexual discipline can't only be about:
DON'T HAVE SEX.
We also have to ask:
What kind of life are you building while you are abstaining?
That's Sexual Social Health.
It's looking at the relationships, habits, experiences, support systems and personal-development practices surrounding your sexual choices.
WHAT WILL YOUR RESULTS TELL YOU?
At the end of the assessment, you'll discover the current state of your Sexual Social Health:
FULL CUP
Your environment is working for you.
You've built many of the ingredients that can help purity thrive. Your next move is about maintaining that foundation while continuing to advance relationally.
HALF CUP
You've got some good things working—but there are gaps.
Some areas of your environment are supporting you well while others could use intentional strengthening.
EMPTY CUP
It's time to rebuild your environment.
Your results suggest you may be trying to maintain sexual discipline without enough support surrounding it. Rather than simply demanding more willpower from yourself, it's time to identify what needs to be built.
THIS ISN'T A "HOW PURE ARE YOU?" TEST.
We're not grading your relationship with God.
We're not measuring your worth.
And we're definitely not handing out gold stars because you haven't had sex.
We're looking at your environment.
The goal is to help you recognize what's already supporting your purity—and what may be making the journey unnecessarily difficult.
Your results are a snapshot, not a permanent label.
Your cup can change.
Your relationships can change.
Your habits can change.
Your environment can change.
And that's exactly the point.
IT'S QUICK. IT'S FREE. AND IT MAY CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT PURITY.
Answer based on what your life looks like right now—not what you wish were true, what used to be true or what you think the "good Christian answer" should be.
Nobody benefits from you getting an impressive score.
We want the useful one.
[ FIND OUT HOW FULL MY CUP IS ]
YOUR SCORE IS JUST THE BEGINNING.
Once you receive your results, we'll help you understand what your score may mean and give you practical next steps based on where you are.
You'll also have the option to go deeper with YPC resources designed to help you:
ADVANCE if your environment is already strong.
STRENGTHEN if you've built a foundation but have important gaps.
REBUILD if your purity needs a stronger environment underneath it.
Because the goal isn't simply to help you avoid sex.
We want to help you build a life where purity can thrive.
Ready to see how you're doing?
[ TAKE THE SEXUAL SOCIAL HEALTH QUIZ ]